A Journey of Resilience and Support: Ashlee and Tanya’s Story

Ashlee and Tanya

"A Decade of Difference: The Journey of a Mentor and Mentee"

In the Heart of the Mentor:

Ten years ago, a young boy named Jordan, shy and unsure on his first two-wheeler, entered Tim's life through Big Brothers Big Sisters. Tim recalls, "He was this lively kid, all energy and missing front teeth, barely reaching my waist. Now, he's almost my height, shaving, and learning to drive!" This journey wasn't just about fun activities; it was about witnessing Jordan's incredible transformation - from a reticent seven-year-old to a confident, community-involved teenager. "It's the pebble effect," Tim says, "The ripples of our time together have reshaped his life, and surprisingly, mine too."

Through the Eyes of the Mentee:

Jordan's perspective sheds light on his initial hesitation and the ensuing transformation. "I was scared, unsure about trusting Tim. But now, he's my best mate." With Tim's support, Jordan navigated challenging behaviours and academic struggles. "He helped me find my footing - in school, in Scouts, even in photography. I've become a leader, thanks to him."

The Parent's Viewpoint:

As a single mother, Jordan's mom sought a consistent male role model for her son. "Tim was more than just a mentor; he brought joy, stability, and adventure into Jordan's life." She credits Tim with helping the family through their darkest times, including the loss of Jordan's father. "He's become a part of our family, a beacon of support and kindness."

Building Bridges

Enter Tanya, a figure of strength, intelligence, and compassion, who stepped into Ashlee’s life without expectations but with a heart ready to support. Through years of dedicated mentorship, Tanya and Ashlee’s bond deepened, transforming their weekly meetings into a sanctuary of growth, laughter, and life lessons. This connection became Ashlee’s beacon during her darkest times, especially following her mother's passing.

The Outcome: A Future Forged with Hope

Now 22, Ashlee emerges as a testament to the transformative power of mentorship. No longer the "bright freckled face wee lass" but a confident young woman charting her path in plumbing, her journey reflects a remarkable resilience. Ashlee’s gratitude towards Tanya and Big Brothers Big Sisters underscores the profound impact of their support, illuminating her aspirations to pay it forward.